I'm re-watching season 6 and it is startling how aggresively intolerant the Winchesters were to Cas. Not only did they use him pretty selfishly (along with Bobby, yeesh) and barely ever bothered to say 'please' or 'thank you', they were demanding, arrogant and entitled to boot.

Are there are fics where they don't go straight for the threats? The 'what are you doing? Tell us! Stop doing that or else we'll put you down' rhetoric?

I'm especially interested in ones where Sam is the mediating factor (just 'cause it seems like he was in the best position to understand) and not interested in Destiel at all, thank you.

I'm browsing the tags but I hope someone can point me in the right direction.