I just love oblivious!Jared and pining!Jensen. Please rec the best ones you know! I already know and love We Must Reinvent Love, which is the best example of this genre I can imagine. And My Heart Don't Beat the Way It Used To, also excellent and loved.

Any kind of moderately realistic AU (you know, no space pirates or time travel or werewolves) or real world, and hopefully with a happy (and NC-17) ending. I'll take cleaner ratings if it's really good though. And self-recs are great!