Hey folks, first post in the comm! I'd be quite joyous for recs from the following 2 subjects:

1) Wincest in particular, but also other slash written by men. J2, Dean/Cas, crossover ships, whatever m/m pairing (or threesome or moresome for that matter) written by a dude. Smut preferred

2) Het that doesn't have coital sex (to clarify, no penis in vagina or anus. Vibes, fingers, tongues etc fine)  Plotty or plotless, pairing or threesome, whatever. Slash and wincest are more than welcome in this. Genderswitch, esp girl!Dean is too.  Bonus if it features Pamela, Ellen, Cassie, Ruby (s. 3 version),  Jessica, Tessa, Meg (either/both versions), Faith (from Buffy), Sandy, Sera Gamble, Amber Benson, Samantha Ferris. Mary would be awesome too, but in a non-incestuous way. This probably doesn't exist, but Jensen/Poppy Montgomery = HUGE bonus (see the made for TV movie Blonde and you'll know what I mean) *makes self stop listing names*  :) Another bonus if there's (het obviously) tribadism* in it. Big fan of oral (both ways), masturbation/voyeurism, and anal stimulation of men too. In fact some of these I want to read so much, that I'm open to recs that include coital sex, as long as it's not presented as the main or final event, so to speak.
*In case anyone is confused at me asking for het tribbing, tribadism is technically het or lesbian--wikipedia can tell you more :)

Apologies if I went overboard on tags--I had to restrain myself and not tag on the pairings section ;) I also apologize for the detail I went into on 2 if it offends your eww het sensibilities.

Thank you to anyone who has recs in advance!

(ps, sadly, I have no spn icon, so I offer Manic Street Preachers)