I have been wracking my brain for this fic... Dean and Cas are an item, pretty sure they're living in Pennsylvania and both working at a local hospital. Sam emails Dean out of the blue and is coming to visit with Jess--but Dean hasn't told Sam that his partner is a guy. There's also fumbling with an air mattress, grilling out on the deck, awkward conversations... And Cas was kicked out of the military for Don't ask Don't tell before meeting Dean

Help?

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