Hey all!

I'm looking for a meta I read a few months ago, written after Sacrifice.  It focused on Sam and Dean's methods of communication (Sam: verbal, Dean: physical), particularly as relates to their interaction in S8.  Specifics include how Dean in particular would communicate with mixed messages - he would do things that indicated his support of Sam, while simultaneously saying things that did not support Sam, thus what Dean intends to communicate (physically) is not what Sam understands (because Sam takes in what Dean is saying more than what he's doing).  Yet in the climactic scene of Sacrifice, they finally get on the same page because Dean's actions and words are finally consistent.

I hope this rings a bell - thanks in advance!